How to change your mindset

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 How to change your mindset

After reading my thoughts on Medium, I came across this blog, where I have found a lot of valuable inputs to change my mindset. My opinion on this blog is very different because I came across this blog on Medium and then I'm consulting with people. So, once I started reading the blog, it became really worth it to me. I immediately realized that there is a lot that I am missing out on. Because I did the same thing as everyone else in the community. I didn't realize this till now. The author of the blog has never seen the other side of things. I will also be taking part in the class in which I am going to be able to implement certain suggestions that my brain has missed out on to focus more energy, which will lead to progress.

I will try to apply some of his suggestions to myself to stand on my own. (If I want to learn things that I can share this blog, I'm going to be in the class so people can figure out why some people can stand by it more than others.)

The first suggestion that I found in his blog was that people should have a better reason for being in the community. He believes that not seeing any results, and your reason is a lot less important than what you are doing to the community. He is saying that we should look at things like our motives for being in the community. He explained to us at the beginning that this is something that can be internal. But when we have something that people are really looking for, why do we not have it? Just because we don't have something that our community is really looking for, but we are still passionate about it, it means that it is important. It is because it is something that you are passionate about.

Since I live near the river, and I enjoy fishing and social events around the river. I will be using a lot of his suggestions to help have a better community event and support people that have said something positive that works and just doing something to help to bring back that community feeling that I had. Instead of worrying about something going wrong, I will be looking forward to things going well. Instead of expecting something bad, I will be looking forward to the things that are going to happen to bring people back around. This is how the theory of choice can be applied. Just because we are looking for something, we just have to do what we can to have something. When our body is hungry, then we can decide that we are hungry. We just have to eat it. This is the same thing as we do when we believe that we are not in a community where we know a lot of people.

Another suggestion that I found is that I can apply back to my community. I will be organizing some events for people to attend to bring them closer to me. I will want the people to know more about my presence in the community and what I offer. I will offer water that is free of charge to anyone within the community that wants to jump in the river. If people don't mind jumping in the river, they will be allowed to jump in. This is why I will be promoting the river as being the best place to be a part of and to jump in. People will see that I am doing this for the community. It will lead to people having more conversations that will show that this is something that can be done. Just like he said in his blog, I will be looking forward to something bad happening.

Some of his blogs showed that there is a lot of energy when we are passionate. Being passionate about things makes us do the things that we think we can do better. Even if we are not saying anything positive, we could just as well say that we are talking to someone who believes in something that we believe in. We have to put effort to turn our minds back to better things. I will be doing all the things that he suggested in the blog and will see how I cope with this new change. His feedback was awesome that a lot of people jumped in with him about his advice. He offered a lot to help people accomplish their goals. Even though he started to change his opinion from time to time, but he never showed up on the positive side of things. He started with how to help people. Not realizing that you should try to help as many people as you can.

At the end of the day, the author gave a lot of great advice and wrote in a new way of thinking. That means there will be many people who will be convinced. Being known in the community is so important that we will likely motivate others that wanted to be involved in any way.

I hope so you like it very much as usual... (Thanks)

Regards

Rabia

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